June 9, 2001

Dear Doctor Fred,

 I can't thank you enough for the beautiful and moving Berit Mila that you performed for our son Max. You performed this mitzvah in a way which my husband Charles and I will never forget. You created such a spiritual atmosphere and gently drew in all who were present.

 You explained what the ceremony was about in a way that everyone&emdash;Jewish or not&emdash;could understand and relate to. You put my family at ease, especially my mother-in-law, who is not Jewish and knew nothing about this vital event in a Jewish boy's life. Prayer, education and occasional and appropriate humor were all part of the ceremony and blended in a way that involved and moved everyone.

 Charles and I so appreciate the time you spent with us before the ceremony. You held the baby and took some time to get to know and relax him. You also talked with the two of us and helped us to understand our roles in this holy day in Max's life.

 As for the medical aspects of the process, you gave us an extremely clear explanation of the circumcision process and when you said that it would take a mere 60 seconds you weren't kidding. Your instructions for caring for Max following the Berit Mila were also thorough and specific and you took the time to make sure we had all the correct items for aftercare. We heard from you a number of times in the days after the ceremony; you were checking up on Max. We were happy to hear from you and to report that he was (and is!!!) doing splendidly.

If and when we are blessed with another child you will be among the first people to know and we hope you would perform another unforgettable Berit Mila or Brit bat for us.

Thanks again for an experience we shall always cherish.

Fondly,

Amy Bickers

P.S. Please tell Charlotte that we thank her for the stunning baby naming certificate she created for us which is framed and hanging in Max's room.

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